and it's not entirely focused on america, although i think it's safe to say they have big part in what is made acceptable and the fashion on the world.

i don't think though, it's about making men more feminine and vice versa. i think it's more about not making men way macho and women way passive like what was once viewed as socially acceptable.

if you like to do something or live a certain way, you do it, rather than worrying about if it's too feminine or too macho.