how old is your sister?

i'm sure the last thing you want to do is to put your dad in jail. well that would be me in that position. I would hint to him that you're cool with it, but that your sister needs the support and saftey that he's not givin her.

if she's going to be leaving home any time, soon, it could be better for everyone if it were sooner than later. that way when you lot do see each other, it may not be so tense - you'll all be doing as you do, trying to keep all the shit out of your visits.