Masochist......I'm in Christchurch...where in NZ are you?. Thanks for your words of advice. Yes, having surgery later will be more dangerous....Getting out of School will be no picniic if push comes to shove.

Yep, the guy I love seems to be the sort who likes dangling the women in his life on an emotional string. It's a shame for him, because he has many other,good, rare wualities too. Oh, well...such is life....