Neither one is good ! but I think it would be worse to hate yourself ! because if you do, how could anybody else like you ?

Which is worse ?

Going to the grocery store and filling a shopping cart
with your purchases only to find out at the checkout
that you don't have enough money with you to pay
for it all (and having to put stuff back, til you can!) ?
Or
Going to somewhere with a friend and not having enough
money to pay your way, so they buy what you can't for
yourself, just so you can have the day together. and feeling
like a sponger the whole time ?