i have found the idea of trying to argue even a mild point in ones faith is rather useless ... since they always feel that it is an attack against them and their faith... so i never bring it up.... even when it is brought up towards myself.... i know what i feel is right that is good enough for me... so why would the same not be true for someone else and what they believe... after all who am i to tell someone they are wrong...i do not know them, have not lived their life or even had the same teachings as them... to each his own... and if that is not good enough for them ... well that is their problem they can not find enough faith on their own with out being validated by someone else then i think they need more that just religion to help them through...