but is the stress you are theorizing a factor? if anything i find it makes a partner more energetic when pleasing their partner, the coolidge effect did suggest that males would be more receptive, an increase sexual drive to keep up with "his flock" Why should people be any different, i've easily pleased an extramarital partner, and then later that evening my husband...he found himself more aggressive and aroused by the fact that he could smell another man on me...where as i tend to be aloof and request he take a shower when he's had his night of extramarital entertainment...there's no stress, but rather a comforting "nobody does it like you" attitude but we both do react differently, i haven't decided yet if it's a physical(animalistic nature) or mental(my hang up about body fluids) situation...there's so much more in my opinion to love, sex, and the animal need, that is why i decided to look at this from a scientific view rather than society based taboos.


*besides it gives me a chance to flex my gray matter