i think that a divorce can never have perfect timing. i know that i couldn't wait for my mom's divorce to be finalized because i hate my formerly abusive dad. in your situation it seems that she is angry becayse she loves both of you so much that it hurts her to see you seperated(hopefully i'm on the right track). you shouldn't blame yourself for her anger about your split, this is something that needed to be your decision, not hers. i'm glad that the relationship is improving between you and your daughter. i'm 16 and know what its like to want to break away but i love my mom to much to hurt her like that. its just a phase and will eventually pass. don't worry, it'll all work out in the end.