Lillith - Thanks for taking the time to reply. I am 16 and he is 32. No he is not married but widowed. When he told me that I didnt know what to say really it must be horrible losing someone you love and im not good at finding the right words to say in that kind of situation. I didnt ask more because I didnt want to be nosy and just apologized. I like how I can tell him anything and he can understand or respect my opinions. Though i feel I am wrong and I am putting him in a bad situation.