actually this is a very reasonable post, and i agree...children are a serious responsibility, and even i at twenty nine, married and financially okay have issues with them...Lack of free time, constant viligance not only for their safety, but for the sanctity of scribble free walls, unbroken articles, choking possibilities, and talk about finances...it was four hundred dollars a month sometimes more for childcare.

Telling kids to not have sex, isn't enough for the rampant juvenile pregnancies that our society is seeing. Parentage isn't easy, even with two, and it's damn hard being a single working mother...unless they have understanding parents willing to make the sacrifice again to raise their childrens children.

If my daughters get pregnant, i'll be damn sure they deal with it, along with the guy who they were stupid enough to be unprotected with...no dumping the baby in the garbage can or passing the responsibility onto me as the mother...and i will make this very clear to her and i am hoping and sure she'll be smart enough to be selfish at a young age, and keep her life hers...