hey couny you speak very wise words you advice is a good side of this dilema but you must understand in love if their is still a chance you gota do all you can to make it work.thank you for your reply you shouold hear about my plan its in the poetry section in my poem (for you( and (for you part two) im really nevous so i need a lot of peoples advice on what to do!!look forwartd to hear in from you again

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