well, it is a concept of whether thinking about which is more positive.....individuality, where pain and anguish are extreme cases such as in murder's, assholes, etc......or a leave-it-to-beaver type atmosphere, where everyone connects more on a non-individualist nature, concerning the extreme case of individuality......

but, i think that despite being somewhat programmed, ultimately individuality is up to you, and not only that, programming can never successfully make one a full automaton