but there is one thing I do find odd...

most men dislike gay or bi men.. but the idea of a woman yeah they like that (not I.. I prefer my girl to be MY girl)

most woman dislike gay or bi women... but the idea of a gay man isn't a big deal...

I think the easiest solution is if someone doesnt know what drives another person, then not to give a damn....
I don't know what drives someone to be gay, I do know I'm not gay, so why should it ever bother me unless some guy is trying to get me in the sack lol

live n let live ppl ! [/b][/quote]

i do have to agree with what have you have said there... i do find that very confusing my self... like when other women may come across someone that happens to be like... they don't like it or they go off with other women and do there own gay or bi thing... that is another thing i don't understand... oh well i see this world as a one big giant circus... its like that with the men to... i guess the reason is cause they don't want it to be a serious thing or have anything to do with you... so they run off with other people that don't take it seriously *shrugs*