Thank you both- you've really given me a lot to think about. I'll be rereading those posts several times over.

And Fallen, sorry to have sounded arrogant in that last bit. When I look at what I wrote, again, it does seem a bit boastful. I just meant that she likes it- and she doesn't lie to me.... Maybe I have been pressuring her a bit too much to have an orgasm. [Note to self: don't mention orgasm ever again]

And as for showing her how to touch herself? Maybe that works with other girls, but this one is a bit different. She hates touching herself. She only does it when she's in the shower- and that's to wash or shave. You're probably right about her having some strange mental condition about her sexuality- I just can't believe that someone would find their sexual organs so repellent. I've always thought it was beautiful.