Fine! well if you are easy going, less will get you upset, if you're a little more concerned about keeping those around you happy, there's less to be concerned about yourself. Being nice gets you better results and if you are easily adaptable and obedient, people are more apt to reward you....it is true that you can be used as a doormat, but those who take advantage of that are not very...happy people...how can some one who needs to control everything be happy or ever achieve peace, they will never control everything, and rarely control anything...and yes it is a philosophy rogue, my philosophy...