it's my opinion that this statement is correct because they have less to worry about. I'm not talking strictly in a bdsm scenario but in life generally....some call it passive, others weak, and i've even had people say i'm too nice, but when it comes down to it, when the milk spills those who need control tend to get aggitated and need to clean it up immediatly, and those who are more...relaxed, casually find a rag and wipe it up...they are more willing to let the train pass by and catch the next one rather than race to catch it a block down...I think if more people were able to sit and smell the flowers and watch the myriad of clouds and colors in the world and not try to control what they never will, the world would be a much happier place...