Um, I don't live anywhere near there, so I can't give you regional advice. But I can say, if you and your boyfriend plan to stay in music your entire lives and stay together forever, try to get seperate bands, otherwise it's going to cause problems. Maybe you two will be different, but as a rule of thumb, don't date within the band.... Wish I could offer more direct help though... Maybe you should wait the fice months for the pregnant chick to give birth. She might not be up and running right away, but it would give you three time to practice. As for the girl in all the bands, ask her to prioritize. (Maybe buy her shit if it's good and screw her over if she's a bitch ) Tell her, pick one or two bands, then you can play with us. And keep your eyes peeled. Checkout local shows, clubs, etc. Any place a musician would hang out. I would assume you've already tried all of this, but hey. I'll tell you again