In truth Honor really has no definition..... it is a liquid word meaning one thing to each.... one mans/womans honor could be anothers ideal of immoral behaviour.... to attempt to define ones own ideal of honor is ok.... yet to attempt to define honor in a broader range is to defile the very word and your own sense of honor.... honor in a way is akin to love in that it can be defined many ways.... I find your character quite repugnant G.O.M..... you portray yourself one way yet act in a manner unsuitable to what it is you portray..... which is both hypocritical and mannerless... learn some tact... or at least learn when to shut up....