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Legolas · 03-11-08

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Originally Posted by Chaos Creator

Okay, say years ago you fell in love with someone. You dated this person for a while, but somewhere things went wrong, and you split up. Mind you, you never stopped loving this person really. They were what you considered your one true love in the entire world. Kismet, as it were.
Now, imagine that after you had been separated for several years, and have been in several relationships since then, yet you still find that you love the other person, even though you're with someone and have very strong feelings for them.
Then, one day out of the blue, either you or the other person just happen to make contact via the internet, and you find that the other person has the same feelings as you, and are in the same situation (family, career, life in general). Separated by a thousand miles or more, you begin to talk to this person again, and find that those ancient feelings are just as strong as they ever were.

What would you do?

Ask yourself, did all your other relationships fail because you kept comparing them to the old flame? Do you stand to lose anything important by pursuing? Is the juice is worth the squeeze? Assess the situation, look at both sides of the coin, why did you fail in the first place, would/could that happen again? Remember the grass isn't usually greener on the other side... now which side of the fence are you on, that I don't know.

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