well, i appreciate all these ideas... i know that the "right" thing to do is to tell her. i know that, if someone had asked me, that's the advice i would've given. here's the thing:

i know this girl pretty well, and her husband also. i can tell you the 99.99% certainty that he was serious, and also that she has no idea.

he was that way before they married, (so i heard after this episode)... one night stands almost nightly, cheating on girlfriends, and the like. my fiance said that when they went out, when all were single, this guy got all the ass... ya know... a charmer. and he is still that way. his father was even that way. cheaters.

he's got the innocent thing down pat, though. seriously, i thought he was the good one (out of the men in his family). he works hard, comes home on time, doesn't even have his own cellphone, rarely goes out with the boys, and lets his wife and daughter walk all over him, you know the type?

she'll never believe me.

the thing is, even if i tell her... that doesn't heal the friendship. it still happened, and my fiance is still mad. i don't think an apology will help, even if he were to get one.

at best, i see Kristal's husband saying that he doesn't remember it because he was drunk, or saying he was kidding. then my fiance and i will look like retards for making a big deal, and everyone will still be angry underneath.