Self-control may well be the shackles of decency thrown on by a constant society, but removing it from the human instincts and thought processes lead to bloody messes all over the floor.

What you seem to be stating Rigel, is that without the burden of self-control you will be able to disregard your own feelings over the manipulations of others, therefore granting yourself power over your friends or partners. This is in itself is not a bad thing, merely unusual. There are many examples of relationships where one person has full control of their partner, and there have been countless times past and present where a person has bored of their latest friend or conquest, moved on, but kept their ex-partner around as a back-up to fall onto.

I don't know whether I'm simply reading too little into it, but it seems to be simply be a statement on the benefits of manipulation and lack of self control, albeit dressed up in the kind of flowery speech I personally like to adopt when I'm weaving a point through a lengthy statement.