I'm truly amazed at this topic. I don't know whether to laugh or to question what medication you're obviously NOT taking.

Lets have some examples of why self control is a good thing.

You lose control, and in a fit of rage, kill/murder your significant other. This is caused by lack of self control brought on by a rush of emotions. This not only says you have no self control, it also speaks of the absents of coping skills

You get caught by authorities, and there for go through the entire court system, lawyers and all that fun crap. You are convicted and possibly judged as mentally ill. Despite this, you still lost control, and now you will become subservient to law- the very law you broke.

So. Look at it this way. Either you maintain self control, and learn to bend the rules of this society to your own desires without actually being noticed and therefore stopped- or you become a slave to everything that aims to control you.

Loss of control draws unwanted attention and therefore the blinds of life chain you to everything you fear the most- which it sounds to me is conformity.