Not all of us view ourselves as "the most important amongst others". Really though, our problems are our own; we need to solve those first, learn to understand ourselves first before we can be of benefit to others in any way. Experince is needed, otherwise we have no way to relate.

Trancending is but a moment, it comes, it enlightens and then it will move on of its own, unclutchable to be held onto by any one. Truth isn't always the same, doesn't stay the same; over time it can change, modify and turn itself on end with new experiences and revelations. We live in our own seperate realities, make of the environment as we do . . . what we really need to do is make a peace and a blance with the world that impinges on us from the outside, we always live in relation to the other, that which is outside. That is, we can't understand happiness fully if we haven't experienced any sadness or tragedy.