no family, no kids, single, with money? stop being cruel!

that's every bored housewife's dream, so why not go out and enjoy it for all us women left at home while the husband is at work going insane with children counting down the days until school starts, and multiplying them by the grey hairs popping out around your head?

once you have the partner, you're making considerations for them in all your activities, when you get the children, kiss your time, coupleship and any hobbies you had goodbye...and travel, money or other single person luxuries, what are those?

you quickly begin to miss the option to just sit quietly in a nice restraunt, take your time eating...leave to walk about town for a bit, maybe a little window shopping, a movie you haven't seen...take a weekend out of town to get a little different flavor....in this situation the only way you're going to break your loneliness is to go out and do something to alleviate it.

right now i'd be at a nice little coffee shop down the road drinking coffee, eating brunch and talking with whoever ended up sitting next to me at the counter...usually started inquiring if i'm done reading the paper and some current event, rather than listening to my daughter take her morning bath and contemplating the three towels and pile of wet clothes and toys i'll have to step through to get her to pick it all up, after frustrating defiance on her part, two loads of laundry that never end and wanting a new bike but realizing we still have four bills left to pay on this month.

enjoy being free and single, at one point you'll have your entire life to live for others, and then you'll really find your faith in Gd, especially those days when He's the only one not complicating your need for temporary solitude we all have or requiring you to sacrifice so much of you, for other people...that you begin to forget who you were.