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08-05-07
I don't think it's weird at all...I remember years back I had been in a long term relationship (wound up being over 8 years) and at one point we were separated because he decided to move to Arizona for a while, so I had to get used to doing things alone. For me, that was hard because I had get used to doing that. I had been really alone for a lot of my life and was sort of clingy so I wanted to relearn how to be by myself and I went out of my way to go out to eat and stuff alone. At least now I know that if I'm put in a position where I am alone for any length of time it might not be fun all the time but I'll survive it just well. I now enjoy my alone time.
One thing from chatting and posting with you on here that I have noticed is that I think you have a very independent spirit that's SO admirable, esp. when so many women these days are so dependent on having to have a relationship to define them. If anyone thinks you are a weirdo for going out in public alone, they should get bent. People are far too hung up these days on antiquated ideas about how things are "supposed to be".
Are you looking for a relationship, or just for some new friends, or...? "Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people."---C. G. Jung
Last edited by ~G~ : 08-05-07 at 19:23.
Reason: clarification
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