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06-23-07
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Originally Posted by Chaos Creator View Post
Oh, man. All this has done is give me more reason to worry.
For one thing, I'm not an exhibitionist. I don't even like for people to see me in my boxers, let alone some other dude in the room while I'm banging my girl. We've been watching some videos and talking about different shit. I just don't know.
My girl's into BDSM. Which, I am, too, but I don't know how far I want to take it. She wants to be a slave, but she wants to dominate, too. I'm more dominate than anything else. I like having my way.
I worry because I've always been one of those people with a crazy self-image. At times I'm really egotistical, but sometimes I'm really self-concious. Is that what they call manic-depressive? Whatever. Anyway, I worry because I'm afraid that if we do something like this, who's to say she's not going to leave me for some other guy/girl that fucks her better? I mean, I trust her, but there's always that chance that it'll change everything. I love my girl, and I don't want to lose her.
She's always telling me that I'm the one she comes home to and all that, but what happens that one day when she doesn't? And, I completely agree that females get more than males. That's another aspect that worries me. What if she has all these guys falling all over her trying to fuck her, and I can't even find one girl willing? That would suck.
My girl has a myspace page where she portrays her wicked side. There's all kinds of freaks on there trying to get with her. Some girl told her today that she wanted to be my girl's slave for a week. Which, in itself, might be kind of cool. But what about the rest of the fucking psycho-freaks?
God, I hate this shit.
If your being the Dom, Then TELL HER!!! or are you a switch? Hell, if she wants a slave, it might be fun.. Slave of the slave and all that... {been there}
if she's looking at Dom's, Your in trouble. Means your not taking her to where she wants to be. Seriously, i have to agree with J.. Talk to her about what the expectations, limitations, and realistic happenings are. You may discover that she may wish to be more Dom, or want YOU to be more Dom.. Or she may just want a sub partner to 'enjoy time with'..

Bottom line is..... : Discuss it deeply with her first.. Find out where you both want to set your limits at.. Then discuss options from there. either you can find happiness, an equal enjoyment, or neither..
But you have to discuss it with an OPEN MIND before you come to a final conclusion.

Beware the ex's.. They ARE out to get you...

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