ALso, the Oprah Winfrey bullshit of the day of wanting to spend time and positive reinforcement and letting kids lead the wya is horseshit and the reaso why the youth in this country is so fucked up. Children are morons by default and need guidance, rules and punishment when they fucked up and rewards when they achieve what goals you set for them. People who do not strike thier kids should have them taken away since youre neglecting them.