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10-18-06
I dont quite understand all of the "Be yourself" advice, especially when you are talking to someone who isnt sure of who they are. If feel you are a Goth, is there a uniform?
Not that Hugh Hefner is someone to necessarily admire, but I once saw him say that when he was young, he envisioned this personality with the cigars and red bathrobe etc. So he started to dress like that person and act like that person, and soon enough, he WAS that person. I would contend that Hugh was always that person, after all, he had that vision, not anyone else.
My advice: forget who you are and think about who you want to be. Wanna be a CEO asshole? Dress and act like one. Wanna be a unemployed unappreciated asshole? Dress and act like one. |