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Originally Posted by InKY View Post
At 30 (almost 30, I can't speak for exactly 30 yet) one's priorities are different and one's interests are much broader than they are at 20 (at least they shoudl be). I doubt that you will make up as much of his world as he'll make up of yours.

You're saying that you're willing for it to be "fun", so maybe that doesn't matter to you. I think, especially in such a high risk situation, that you should wait for a partner who's more likely to have more in common with you.

If you feel you do have a lot in common, ask first whether it's desireable for a middle-aged guy to still have the interests and habits associated with people 10 years his junior.

Obviously, I don't know either of you, and not every successful couple is similar. I just think that if you don't plan on this going anywhere you should minimize the risk to yourself.

You do talk out of your ass...

Since when in the hell is 33 middle aged?

And are you a guy? No, so how can you lump all guys as the same?

You seem to be preaching from the bitter end from what you've written here so far.

Woixiow, talk to the guy first and tell him how you feel, find out how he feels and then go from there. He must have some feelings for you as it must have taken him a lot to be upfront and honest about the Herpes, hell he could have fecked you all over and never said a word but he didn't.

The thing is, do as you feel is right for you and stuff what anyone else has to say as in the end it's your life and you have to live with the choices you make, both good and bad...


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