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woixiow · 10-01-06

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Originally Posted by InKY

At 30 (almost 30, I can't speak for exactly 30 yet) one's priorities are different and one's interests are much broader than they are at 20 (at least they shoudl be). I doubt that you will make up as much of his world as he'll make up of yours.

You're saying that you're willing for it to be "fun", so maybe that doesn't matter to you. I think, especially in such a high risk situation, that you should wait for a partner who's more likely to have more in common with you.

If you feel you do have a lot in common, ask first whether it's desireable for a middle-aged guy to still have the interests and habits associated with people 10 years his junior.

Obviously, I don't know either of you, and not every successful couple is similar. I just think that if you don't plan on this going anywhere you should minimize the risk to yourself.

I am not exactly your average 20 year old. You will likely disagree, but we're both pretty much on the same field. He behaves younger than he is, and I, older. I didn't say I didn't PLAN on it going anywhere, I said realistically, where could it go?

Why do I want to... that is really the question...

thanks

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