hey man, i know where you're coming from, and i'm gonna try to keep my answer short and sweet: we can only be ourselves, no matter what we do or say, "wearing masks" is really just a different way of opening up to other people and everybody does it and i appreciate it when i feel people doing it around me (i can clear this up if it interests anyone) and there can't really be one objective definition of the person you are, it's really all about what the individual feels... i'm no philosopher or anything but i like to think what i feel and make up has some sort of underlying sense to it. anyway, just my two cents again