what your husband did was had sex and run. which reminds of a "hit and run" on my wife and child. that isn't a husband and that isn't a man. it's a low life. he took you by the bull hornes and ripped your head off to a complete. he sounds disfunctional. major issues. he will be paid for what he did. i hope that you and your child will do fine. best of luck and wishes to you both.