No I didnt mean that, I meant that trying to take the kid away from her ex is wrong. She moved, not the ex, she should make the effort to go back, not think about a bitter custody battle that will fuck the kid up.

THe fact that she is pregnant again now, compounds the issue. I really feel bad for her if the father of this one is living where she is now. Because in that case no matter where she goes shes going to either be away form 1 of her children, or one of the fathers if not both will be. A shitty situation all around.