I know I'm speaking to teenage hormones and that what I'm going to say is not going to be what you want to hear, but I can tell you right now that you're waiting for one big heartache. He's making up excuses to get you off of his back. You're much better off if you just cut the cord and move on. You'll find someone in you're area who care for you the same way you care for them. Besides that, you're young and you got time on your side. Just relax. You'll find someone sooner or later.