talking to him? what sort of difference does that make? hes an antisocial little bugger
its odd that its just pee....he remembers where the litterbox is when he needs to do the other thing. my mums under the impression that it may be because he is irritated. she says that grocery store brand cat foods are very high in ash and can cause bladder stones. shes says its not an issue for female cats since they can pass them fairly easily but it can irritate and eventually lead to blockage in males. ill try a change in diet soon to a better quality dry food and see if that makes a bit of a difference...better than cageing him
