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08-07-05
A lot of people feel that you must not love someone if you are willing to 'share' them. I suppose those people will never understand until they end up in a situation where they love more than one person.
People like to go with what works, and what is more convenient. Polyamory demands more effort from each person. Honesty is more important in a polyamorous relationship.
I think people should try it. Once something goes wrong, however, don't automatically assume that polyamory doesn't work. After all, there are problems in traditional relationships, but how often do you hear someone claim that monogamy doesn't work? Sounds like a double standard to me.
It suits some people and not others. So do what makes you happy. |