This is why I don't keep friends anymore. However, and this is just me, she does need someone to be mean enough to tell her off, kind oflike Qoji said, but not necesarily you. She sounds kind of babied. However this could also be a lack of social understanding. Sounds like she was either very sheltered, or just doesn't get out much, and doesn't know how to act around friends. She has a hard lesson to learn, but she isn't going to learning unless someone, possibly quite brutally, removes the wool from her eyes, and shows her that she is not acting the way she should to keep friends.