I really hesitate to do this and have you go off on me:
but I will do it, because I care. This hit me hardest:
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I don't know why he can't discuss things like an adult and just sort it out without being little bitch about about it. I do know that his ex girlfriend used to make him feel bad all the time, call him names and just drag him down every chance she got because she is a bitch (He is telling the truth, I actually tried to have a conversation with her once... Man she is the biggest fucking bitch on the planet and I know a few bitches...) and likes to make people feel bad about themselves.... But you know, I am not her, I am a much better person than her, I don't pull him down, I don't tell him his artwork is shitty and I don't make a fool of him in public, yet why is it everytime I try to talk to him like an adult, he springs into this mode where its about shutting me up in the most efficent and quickest way possible without taking responsability for his own shit?
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Frankly, you have been so snowed by this guy it makes me want to drive up there and get you and your daughter and bring you back here so you won't ever have to deal with him again.
He is selfish and cruel, and I'm sorry that you got involved with him, BUT you got your daughter out of it, and that is SO worth it all. Now, in my opinion, you need to tell him he either gets his ass into counseling and he has to FIX his issues or you are out with the baby and that's it.
This guy will hurt you for the rest of your life, but worse, he'll ruin that child.