Yeah, let me switch into serious mode . . . Okay: It sounds like he's an emotional manipulator. There is no excuse for treating someone like that; if someone loves you it means that they want to spend time with you. If he could give you a legitimate reason for why he can't go interesting places with you and all he is doing is keeping you on the sidelines . . . Almost like a mistress if you will pardon the expression: Then, when you try to advocate for yourself he throws it back into your face and tries to make you seem like the one who is being crazy and unreasonable. You should know what's going on and think you've got a good idea, thankfully you've got too stout of a spine to completely fall for the bullshit it sounds like this guy is trying to pull. From whatyou have just written he has the classic patterns of someone who is an emotional abuser and they know how to be charming people.
Here; read up on this and be sure to look at the handy checcklist presented for signs of emotional abusers and you'll see what I mean: http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com...mesticviolence
I know it may be a frightening thing to think about but think hard about if it is worth being with this guy if you can't count on him when it really counts for the times when you enjoy his company.