i hold grudges.........but i can also forgive and forget......but it takes time.....

then again, there are some people i absolutely hate and will continue to hate.....i'm actually a pretty good judge of character (or rather, whether or not someone and myself may become friends)......but if a friend pisses me off, depending on the severity of it, depends on whether or not i'll hold a grudge......but with time they usually fade......it can take days, months, even years......