Now, according to her ex husband(Not me, #2):

She fed him a lot of shite about me. Most of which he took for truth. Love being blind and all.
Some of it was actually twisted truth. I did hunt her down when she took Fellik for a "trip to see family" and three days later i found out that she had actually gone the opposite direction with no intention of informing me that she had planned it in hopes that i would forget about our son.
I DID go through a 'year of insanity' before the divorce was final. And do regret some, not all, of the things i did during that time..
I NEVER hit her, not once. Nor did i threaten to hit, kill, maime, or otherwise physically harm her. Unless, of course, she had done something to cause Fellik's death/dismemberment.
I am not stalking her.
I am not watching everything she does.
I am not tapping her phones or internet.
I haven't installed hidden cameras in her house.
I am NOT trying to get her back.
I am not trying to take Fellik away from her.

It's her feckin life. and as long as it causes no harm to our child, i don't give a flying elephant about her life.
But according to the second ex-hubby, i am/was doing all of these things.. She had convinced him that i was evil, mean, crazy. Then, due to circumstaces that arose at the time of his seperation, he was transporting Fellik while picking up/dropping off his daughter from my Ex's house. And became curious and asked me questions. Thereby getting the other side of the story(mine). He informed me about things she had told him. I told him my version. he weighed the two and came to his own conclusions.
OH, and thats another funny thing.. When picking up Fellik, or dropping him off, I am scheduled for it so not to show up at the same time as hubby #2. Heaven forbid we say hi to each other around her new husband.