Nope, there wasn't a question in there. Sounds to me like you just met some douchebags, and discovered that a person wasn't who you thought he was. That happens every day... I just went through the same thing myself, concerning a friend of mine; while it sucks, it doesn't mean you have to change anything. It falls under the "shit happens" rule of the universe. Just suck it up and move on. Not everybody is going to disappoint your morose self. I personally hate your guts, but I'm a dick. There are cooler people all over the place. Buck up, son.