you can be pissed at sphyre for how she said that, but don't get pissed over what she said. you know i don't come on here with the intent to bring anyone down, and actually i hope to do the opposite, but if a point has to be made, it's going to be made.

as far as i'm concerned, i've seen enough pictures of you to say that you do have an issue that threatens your health and quality of life. and it's something that can change, i don't care how many "failures" you've had in the past or what's in your genetics. i find that only an ass would gloss over this issue and leave you feeling complacent. you do need to deal with your weight. if not for the sake of vanity, then for the sake of living an average lifespan.