i disagree. i mean, why kick a dead horse? (concerning a thread topic) if ppl Choose to lose interest on their own, then they've lost interest. it should be a collective effort by everyone to keep a thread alive. i've no qualms if a mod wants to put forth that effort, i'm just saying that as a mod, ~I~ wouldn't do that. My motto would be "I'm a forum member first and a mod second (and only if the need arises)"

for the most part, actually, in all that i can even see on this forum, lily is the only mod that seems to have Public issues with people...this is including the Bitch board and the Serious discussion board.....which is alarming. The other day, I minorly flamed a patron cause he was being dumb in my opinion and i was pmed a reminder of the rules. Problem solved. It could have even been you (Synikul) that PMed me that and you're not a mod and it would have made the same difference to me. Mods with power sticks up their asses shouldn't be mods. This is an Internet site. If someone is power hungry, run for office or something worthwhile...

but yeah, i basically think that you and I agree for the most part..