I agree. Just listen to the sound of someones voice when they go "oh man, I've got to finish my christmas shopping!" , it's something they dread. And I'm sure it's not the gift giving, but rather the stress and pressure of finding something that hopefully the other person will like.. and in somewhat short period of time. (depending on when you started). My family isn't religious type, we just consider the holidays as a time to bring the family together. And that's what it really boils down to in my opinion, is a time for family.

and on the decorations, you're right.. for some it's a "who's wang is bigger" kind of deal. It's a waste powering enough lights to land an airplane