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12-20-04
Ooh, that would definitely be a biggie. That's not one that you can really call a time-out on and then just do away with. That would be scary.
I think about that sometimes too...as much as I want to be a mother sooner or later, it's not something I could take back if I don't like it. Then I go back and forth in my head whether or not that means I am totally not ready, or if it's just the normal doubts and ambivalence someone encounters in such a big life decision. One thing is for sure, I know it tells me that I understand the magnitude of the responsibility, which is a good thing because I know other people who already have children and/or a marriage who don't take it quite as seriously. "Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people."---C. G. Jung |