itz that time again.....

i ask you....what is a "virgin?"

there's some interesting definitions in the dictionary:

virgin is someone who's never had sex....especially women.....someone who hasn't been explored and exploited by human(s)

now sex is defined as sexual intercourse which is thereby defined as "an act carried out for reproduction or pleasure, especially the acts between man and woman, the act of coitus".....

coitus is defined as the penis penetrating the vagina

so it would seem, by these definitions, that the only people who lose virginity are heterosexuals who engage in standard penis penetrating vagina....

but can we dismiss that homosexuals (gays and lesbians) who engage in pleasure as still virgins?

more so....think of this......now, if a man and woman are together, both their first time in any kind of sexual interaction.....now, say they have oral sex.......are they still virgins? it would seem so....

but, what about lesbians? they have oral sex....are they still virgins?

same goes for hand jobs and fingerings.....

lesbians again....if two lesbians finger each other....are they still virgins?

what about gays? they have oral sex....are they virgins?

what about anal sex? it would seem two guys who interact in anal sex aren't virgins....but does the same go for heterosexuals? if a guy has anal sex with a chick, is he still a virgin? is she?

now....some might say that "getting off" with a partner is the act of losing one's virginity.....but, what about all those countless women who have never had an orgasm......or a man as well, say a gay man who has anal sex.....are they still a virgin because they don't/haven't gotten off, despite being penetrated?

also....what about raped/molested victims....are they virgins or no?

your thoughts......?