well at least your mom's parents sent you a card and some money. that is better then not getting anything on your birthday. well since your great grandmother was going into a coma and died. maybe your dad didn't want you to see her go through all that coma kind of a mess. and like he wanted to protect you from it. if you have understood what i ment by that. but i'm sitting here thinking that you did. since i have no idea of what i ment by that. as far as dealing with it. accept that your great grandmother has died. and that she lived a long full-filled happy kind of a life. and that her time on earth was finished. at least she is in a better place where isn't suffering. remember all the good times that you have spent with her and forget about the bad times. because that would bring you down. if you remember the bad times. i don't know if i should say that. but i'm just saying that just incase you happen to run into it and start blaming your self. you know what i mean? anyway here is a birthday cake for you silverflame. and i hope that what i said was some what helpfull and accurate.

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