i only read the first post, none of the responses... i think this is disgusting of the mother to try and force this on her child. even if the man is changing, the girl is only 15, and should not have to deal with this. she's too busy trying to grow up to ktry and forgive this horrible infarction on her person. she needs time, more than the mother is apparently willing to give. furthermore, the fact that the mother can forgive it so quickly says something about her care for the child. im not sure what state this is in, but sounds like she needs to divorce her parent if she's being forced to exist with a child molester. i realize you care for the whole family, and you should, but they werent victimized. take care of the 15 year old, be there for her as much as possible, and never judge any of them to their face, or they'll think they cant confide in you if something dispicable happens. i would suggest consulting a local attorney, or social worker... call dept of social services and inquire about the situation. i would even have the 15 year old go to them if it is possible. furthermore, the predator might seek one of the younger children now that he knows the 15 year old is strong enough to tell on him. do the younger ones realize the severity of the situation, or do they not know what happened? that can be very dangerous if they dont know they are in danger. just stay close to them, and dont seem like a threat to the boyfriend, or the mother might shut you out. be frank with the child, but be careful what you say, as it might get back to the mom. im sure the mom means well, but people can be blinded by affection, and she might not realize the danger she's putting the child in. be there for the mom, but the children come first. and i dont know these people, but the guy (even if he's trying not to be bad) can have a relapse at any stressful point... he doesnt need to be put in a tempting situation... this is so wrong