...i mean if Kelly wants to reconcile with Vince, that is her decision. However, by no means should Vince EVER be allowed near the children. Just bothers me that she would even consider having Vince near them - it's like saying, "i love Vince more than my own children".

...this is tough.

..and i hate to say this, but i really think Kelly is the one who needs to be punished or get professional help.... she is neglecting her little babies. when i was abused as a child, i was always more upset and angry with my mom because though she didn't abuse me half as much, she never did anything and she could have about my violent father. saying that though, i have a much healthier relationship with my mom today than i do my dad and have been able to forgive them both without them asking for forgiveness.

above all though, you need to make it stop....and sadly i don't know what to tell you on how