You are missing the point. What I'm saying is that there is no point in expression of attachement to anything we can experience in human life. If we are to become like the gods we must think like them in order to train our energy to be like theirs. Since they are self contained systems, we must be self-contained systems. Thus we rise above the human life and its faults. We must be indifferent to all other energies outside of our own if we are to become like the gods. In doing so we will become self-contained personal energy fields, and when we do that, we start an automatic evolution towards Godhood.